Free Online Psychics and How to Discover True Nature

The most empowering question anyone can ask of a child, or even an adult, is "Who do you want to be when you grow up?" A child will respond with wide-eyed wonderment and enthusiasm while the adult will often respond with a woeful look of that was then, this is now retort.





"He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away." ~ Raymond Hull





Who did you want to be when you grew up? Superman? A Ninja-Turtle? Nancy Drew, Andy Warhol? Did you want to be a movie star, astronaut, teacher, or doctor? Who did you admire? Madonna? Albert Einstein? Mother Teresa? Lucille Ball? Who's life 'spoke' to you? What famous person, literary or movie character, or favorite relative did you want to be just like when you grew up?





Whoever you aspired to be reflects who you are, your true nature. It's not the person you adored, it's what they're attributes represented. It was their boldness, strength, creative spirit, can do attitude that inspired you. Perhaps it was how they served others that touched your heart. Whatever it was, the characteristics of the people who you aspired to be reflect your own. That's why you love the way these personalities make you feel when you think of who they are, what they have and what they do. You always love the reflection of you, your true self.





"No one man can, for any considerable time, wear one face to himself, and another to the multitude, without finally getting bewildered as to which is the true one." - Hawthorne





What you don't love is an inauthentic reflection. Many adults look in the mirror and find a stranger looking back. Who is this person? What have I become? Where my early hopes and desires just frivolous childish musings or did I get on the wrong boat somewhere? If you've have such 'who am I?" thoughts then, yes, you did turn left when you really wanted to turn right somewhere along your life journey.





The good news is that it's never too late to turn around and get on the right, authentic, road. Authentic living is where the joy is found. Authentic living removes the shackles that hold you back and keep you from actualizing those childhood dreams. Turning from a conditioned nurtured life to an authentic natural way of life is as easy as getting on a bus. Simply show up as whom you aspire to be.





This doesn't mean that tomorrow you're going to run through the city in a red cape and tights jumping from one building to the next. Showing up authentically means showing up with confidence in your abilities, helping others, being strong in character with a solid sense of purpose and responsibility if Superman is who caught your attention as a child. It means showing up comfortable in your own skin, with conviction and without concern of judgment if Madonna was your idol. It means allowing yourself to stretch way beyond your comfort zone into unknown territories if you wanted to be the next John Glenn and walk on the moon.





As you look bleary-eyed into the bathroom mirror in the morning, great the day and claim your inner Steven Spielberg or Gloria Steinem. If you're facing a difficult decision ask what the person you admire would do, what would your inner being do or want? You will discover the your life opens up to new possibilities, renewed energy and purpose.





"If the shoe doesn't fit, must we change the foot?" - Gloria Steinem








Copyright (c) 2009 Valery Satterwhite

Valery is a Creative Mentor who specializes in empowering people to create more passionately, profoundly, productively & profitably. Learn how to trust your intuition, acknowledge your truth, and disarm your fear & self-doubt. Valery developed a proven unique "Inner Wizard" methodology to empower the Wizard Within. Actualize & express your full creative potential. Subscribe! http://www.InnerWizard.com . Free "Empower the Wizard Within tips" too!

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Free Online Psychics and Breaking the Habits That Hold You Back

Forget for a moment all that you have learned about commitment to your goals, all every relative or friend has ever said to you, and all the things you regularly say to yourself. If you have struggled with reaching your goals, do what I recommend all my clients do, "commit to doing something different."





Perfectionism: Are you stuck because you will settle for nothing but perfect from the first moment you start?





Habit Breaker: The perfect cure for perfectionism is failure. Fail..., flamboyantly, beautifully, even... perfectly. Test drive doing things poorly. If you are feeling blocked or stuck starting a new project, give yourself permission to do it wrong -even embrace your not knowing. There is freedom and joy to be found in this phase. If the price seems to be too large. Try messing something up that is totally free from consequence.





Should's: The "should's" in life can get so overwhelming that we don't even know that we are living by them.





Habit Breaker: A way to see if "should's" are dominating your choices is writing down your ideal. If you could have anything that you wanted, what would it be? Set your spirit free. Compare this ideal to what you are working for right now. How are they the same? How are they different? Take a moment to think about why you think things need to be this way. What might you change knowing this?





Taking yourself out of the solution: Have you created an answer to your problem that does not include your personal preferences or ways of doing things? We often look for solutions that have worked for other people and although this sometimes works sometimes it does not.





Habit Breaker: Ask yourself: Do I really want this goal? If the answer is yes, then ask: What is the easiest step for me to take? And, what is the easiest time for me to take this step.





Wrong direction: Do you feel like you are trying to move a mountain? Do you feel drained and doubtful? Sometimes we set out in a direction only to find that it is not the way we really need to go. The trick is telling between the wrong direction and our own doubts and fears.





Habit breaker: Take a moment and close your eyes. Think about your goal. Pay attention to your current goal. What sensations do you feel in your body? With some work, these sensations can be translated into a knowledge that will help you determine how you can best proceed. Although this approach takes time, once mastered it can change your life.





Timing: All the best effort can be lost in the wrong timing. Creating the right timing is nurturing the flow of your life. Determining whether you have picked the right time for your endeavor is contingent on outside factors. In other words, is the moment or situation receptive to what you are doing or offering? If you planted tomatoes in the fall they would not survive. Likewise, a project or goal will not be successful at the wrong time.





Habit Breaker: Take a moment to consider all the factors. Do you need to move a little faster or a little slower? Have you provided enough time for your plans to grow and become established? Do your efforts and your desired results line up? If the answer is no, then make an adjustment. Keep trying until you are certain that you are on the mark.

Kate Siner Francis Ph.D: My coaching and therapy practice, Larger Visions is the key to effectively creating change. It's time for you to do what you DREAM of doing with an ally who understands you and can offer you essential support and tools. To receive your free consultation visit: www.largervisions.com

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